I’m happy to say that I’m going to my first gay wedding tomorrow. Well, technically I have to work during the ceremony, so I only get to go to the gay reception. Still I’m very happy to stand with my friends as they celebrate their love and their commitment to spending their lives together.

Sadly, since I’m in California, it won’t be recognized by the government. That really pisses me off! It’s one thing to be for the concept of marriage equality, but tomorrow marriage inequality will be literally staring me in the face.

I know these guys. One of them was at my wedding. Now I have to stand by as the state discriminates against them? It doesn’t seem fair.

I’ve talked about this before at length. I don’t want to rehash all my same gripes about why it is 100% pointless to outlaw gay marriage…so I’ll just throw this bit of childishness into the “debate” on the topic: